The aim of this article was to discuss conceptions of support in relation to needs and rights based models in early intervention in Sweden, as perceived by parents of young children with disabilities. The discussion is illustrated with data collected by in-depth interviewing of eight parents and analysing the results using a qualitative approach. The theoretical frame is based on empowerment and the data are discussed in relation to this theory. The paradoxical effects of need fulfilment and empowerment that arise in parent-professional interaction are highlighted. This indicates a need for future research about the sometimes conflicting tasks of fulfilling needs and providing proactive support which professionals find in their encounters with parents of children with disabilities. Collaboration in the intervention process based on expertise of both parents and professionals is discussed in relation to these conflicts.